Y do some men behave like this
Accidently i came across this post
Hats off to her
Y always men think that any women who walks outside is his property or he can harass anybody. It is really painful to c that..
I rarely sleep in train.. and I am happy abt that.. rather than being harrassed like this.
I was thinking on how I would have reacted to such incidents..
I'm sure had i been in her situation i must have given a disgusting look or heavy warning and left him for two reasons one i really can't spoil one's future.. eventhough mentally many people have harrassed me.. I have not taken any aggressive actions till now.. I just avoid that person..
And second thing is that honestly I should say I am not brave enough to go a police station.. probably from the beginning I am brought up in a society where going to police station means I have committed crime ..
The most painful point abt that is even educated or middle aged men seems to be no exception to this..
The least i could do and i am doing is telling my younger ones " whatever u reap u sow" and make them understand that women also feelings and they are not show case dolls or wall for u to do anything..
This post is not to hurt to any of those civilised men who doesn't do this.. Others people think twice.. u too have sisters and mother and will have a wife too.. Above all not always u can escape. U will get caught one day eventually.
posted by Padma @ 1:24 AM
4 Comments:
It is a pity that people try to dissuade others from lodging complaints! Such people deserve no sympathy!
But I do have one thing to say -
Why is that laws exist only for "Prevention of Harrassment of Women"?
For the record, I've been harresed once & I couldn't complain cos no law exists in this country for harassment of men!
Further note -
Miss Hemangini & co run an ultra-feminist "BLANK NOISE PROJECT" which wants 'looking' to be classified as harresment(by law)!
Preposterous to say the least!
Both the attitude of Indian men & Indian women arise from the same source - conservative society which shielded healthy interaction between men & women!
To get tempted is human nature, if you dont want to be troubled, better take precautions instead of blaming men!
It is not that girls dont ogle at men or that they are very modest. Its very simple, you fear if you might be identified for doing so and in our country, girls have be idolised as modest people, so if you by anychace get caught you fear to face the public. Thats the only reason.
Women can control their tempation to an extent, whereas men folks cant. Simple. Had the husband,father or brother of a feminst had not allowed this female to come out freely with her ideas and opinions, she wont be standing on the podium today. So its utter nonsense, if she says women doesnt get any freedom in our country. Inda freedom kuduthadhunaladhan pesaravanga ivalo pesaranganu purinjukanum!
" To get tempted is human nature, if you dont want to be troubled, better take precautions instead of blaming men!
Yes Sri agreed....but you are wearing a salwar to office, when you come back by bus, some middle aged uncle, surely married is trying to fall on you. Where have you tempted him? In which way? Can you tell me? And where can you go and complain abt this? You can only stare at him angrily, if you shout out loud, there will be a big hue and cry and you dont know what the other ppl will start talking abt you
@naren
I think nowadays laws r coming for men harrassment also..
@sri
ur point is taken and who has to decide on what is tempting and harrassment and indepedence r two difference things and i'm talking abt the former and not the latter
@mayur
some creatures can never be changed and the only option u have is to stare at them angrily:(..
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